How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 06:45
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What does the Bible say about the Antichrist? How will we know when he arrives on the scene?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What I need from you?
How do you say "have fun" in French?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Hangs out with loser friends.
How likely is it to make a living out of being a window cleaner in a Nordic country?
Procrastinates a lot.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Hello I am 17 year old boy and I am interested in transgender why?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Why is it difficult to get a job?
That's it for today.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How does a man look at you when he is in love?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
How do people develop stage 4 cancer without noticing until it’s too late?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Making more friends is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What made you feel disgusted today?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Ask yourself:
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.